Symphaty.

I can’t judge people based on the decisions they have made, some people do things for wrong reasons, but others do things for the wrong reason with good intentions. Truth is I just never know why people do the things they do, therefore I can’t judge them or assume why they do what they do because when you do you label them with this “One reason”, you don’t give them the chance to explain themselves because I'm too closed-minded to understand their situation.
However, what I can do is extend a sympathetic hand towards those in need because everyone needs someone to turn to at one point or another in there life, be that shoulder that they can lean on when they feel like collapsing, be the hand that picks them up when everything or everyone else is trying to knock them down, Who knows? I might just save a life. before I judge someone, I should get to know them because there is two sides to every story, there is a cause to every affect, reason to every decision.
We are all human therefore we will make mistakes, but from those mistakes we become who we are, we learn from them and we move on to better ourselves. When we judge people for what “Has been” we judge them for who they “Were” and not who they are “Now” because that is what matters today.